Fay Stood Me Up

Over the weekend residents of Florida had been in anticipation, talking about one name.  Fay.  She’s not one of the American Sweethearts battling for gold in the Olympics.  She’s not a swimmer, neither a gymnast.  In actuality she is not a person but she caught our attention- allowing us to spend our weekend in a rather different way.  As you may have known by now, Fay was the name of the tropical depression that threatened the state of Florida yesterday.

For a tropical depression, she was treated as an inevitable mischief.  In our household alone, Dad spent so much time monitoring the radar to see the path of the storm.  And when he learned that it was actually heading towards us, we wasted no time in doing our own preparation.  We installed the last four sets of hurricane shutters.  We cleared the lanai from all the plants and moved them to a safer spot.  The house was set for the first blow of what we thought would be the first hurricane of the year.

But as it turned out, Fay did not gain strength to become a hurricane.  And the moment it reached inland, it started to swerve and direct its path northeast- sparing the northwest side of Florida including Sarasota.  And at this point, Fay proved that she had what it takes to be characterized as a storm.  She was unpredictable.

Okay, so Fay stood us up.  What I thought would be my first hurricane experience did not come into place.  But I had learned alot from this what-could-have-been experience.  Another set of cultural difference among Americans and Filipinos flashed before me.

Filipinos call our severe tropical system typhoon.  That’s our counterpart to the Americans’ hurricane.  None of the 7,107 islands of the Philippines is exempted from the occurence of a typhoon, though some that are situated in the center of the archipelago are more fortunate than those that are exposed either on the Pacific Ocean or the China Sea side.  While in the United States, The east-coast get more of the hurricane particularly the state of Florida.  And since Filipinos and Floridians have already accepted this weather condition as part of their way of life, still the two vary in their approach in dealing with the calamity.

Both group enjoyed the aide of a weather forecast.  In the Philippines, we have access to it over the radio or on tv when a commentator interviews an official from PAGASA (Philippine Atmospheric Geophysical and Astronomical Services Administration).  In Florida, people glued on the weather channel that shows the radar- revealing the path of the typhoon.  When learning about an approaching typhoon, we Filipinos turn to God for help that we will be spared.  We pray as our initial reaction and then we start doing our preparations.  Americans on the other hand gather their resources up as they await for the storm.  Most of them don’t really pray.  As long as they have all the shutters down, all the trees cut, they are ready to face the storm.

Hurricanes, typhoons, storms or even just rain is an act of God.  It cannot be stopped, but its damage can be avoided…that’s when the Americans’  prudence come in.  But as it is an act of God, God itself can make it go away…thus he can make it stop.  Then comes the Filipinos’ faith.  And that’s when we realize that even a hurricane or a typhoon can stood us up.  And in their case, there is  no raincheck.

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The Redeem Team

In their quest to reinstate US dominance in International Basketball, the media dubbed the 2008 US Men’s Basketball Team as the Redeem Team. And during the game opener on the second day of the Olympics, the team proved to their countrymen that indeed they are there to reclaim the Gold outscoring China 101-70.

This Summer’s Olympics is just the second Olympics where I have been really paying close attention to the television set. The last time was during the Barcelona Olympics where FIBA for the first time allowed professional NBA Players to participate in the Olympics. That was a treat not only for Olympic organizers and the people of Barcelona. But more than anything else, it was a spectacle to witness even to opposing teams who wound up asking pregame photos with their U.S. opponents/idols. That’s why the name Dream Team.

Coming from a low-moral finish in the 2004 Athens Olympics, the 2008 American team is ready to bring back its glorious moments. Like the past Dream Teams, this team still has the depth of the bench. These are All-Star players that you don’t see together that often. But this time, they are not here for the world to see as individuals. This is reflected in their basketball jersey where you can only see the letters USA in front, and their number at the back. Their names appeared a camouflage on top of their numbers. That is one simple act that represents selfless dedication to bring pride to their country.

The Olympics just started, and one basketball game just ended with the win of the United States. But it is still too early to tell. As the cliche’ goes, the ball is round. And like what James LeBron said, they are just taking things one game at a time. And as for us basketball fanatics, this is another spectacle of a lifetime. We will be witnessing more Alley-oops from Lebron, 3-points from Reed, great passes from Kid, pick-and-roll-Stockton-Malone trademark from Boozer and Williams (they are both Utah Players too), great shots from Kobe, and slam dunks and defense from the rest of the team. Next team to beat, Angola.

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A Stroll At Gotham

There he was- standing on the side of an intersection of a busy street in the metropolis. I can only see his back. I was behind him from a distance; but that didn’t stop me from noticing him. He was wearing this conspicuous-colored-jacket that as it turned out was the only jacket he wore the whole time. He has the awkward posture that you think would make him inferior. But you were wrong…I was wrong. He was almost invulnerable for someone with no plans. He was a mischief with a natural humor in his scripts. And then it’s coming back to me. This is just a movie. And his name was Joker. I was not part of his script as I was just sitting along with other hundreds of people in a dark AMC Cinema.

It was really a different experience when you watch the new Batman movie. It was creepy, unpredictable, and amazing. In one word, it was INTELLIGENT. From the very second the camera rolled, I felt I was part of the movie. I felt the gloomy afternoon when Joker made that first robbery. I was absolutely awed like how those two kids in the car were when the Bat Tumbler transformed to reveal the Bat Pod (That was the coolest thing ever!). My heart was crushed when I learned the news of the death of Lt. Gordon. I even thought “This isn’t Harry Potter. Gary Oldman is James Gordon here, not Sirius Black. You can’t just kill him in Batman!”

Originally, I was not a Batman fanatic. Christian was and has become more. I was drawn to the character that first time I saw Batman Begins. But like we all know, there were three more Batmans before Christian Bale. So why just now? Two words…. Christopher Nolan.

Christopher Nolan brought a different approach to this 1939 character of Bob Kane. He told the story in a way that people will understand (or at least try to understand) the motivation behind Bruce Wayne’s vigilante acts of heroism. In his two movies he balanced to explain the psychology of the hero’s and the villains’ behavior so that when we watch the movie, it’s like we are introduced to this person who will later on become our friend and hero or our foe. And when we learn about the villains, we begin to understand where their behavior is coming from, and that these people were not really born bad. Something from their past triggered them…pushed them to the limits…transforming them to be, Joker or Two-face if I may say so.

Aside from that, Nolan and his group gave us an in-depth affirmation that Batman is just human like us who, at some point had fears- and allowed himself to be exposed to it, and then use it to his crusade. That Batman too is vulnerable inspite of all his modern gadgets- thanks to Lucius Fox. He has a heart that was devastated from the death of his parents, and a love for Rachel Dawes that he had to put to the sides.

I could go on and on with this blog, babbling about almost anything I learned about this movie. But still it wouldn’t be enough to express the admiration that I have to the makers of the film. Truly, The Dark Knight is darker than the first. And it is the Best Batman yet! And after two hours and twenty-five minutes of indulging in the movie, the whole cinema roared an applause of satisfaction. Well, that just means that I wouldn’t be alone in my stroll to Gotham next time. I’m sure a lot of people will be doing it for themselves.

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A Life Defined By Randy Pausch

0 A Life Defined By Randy Pausch

He inspired his students in their classroom discussions…. touched the lives of strangers who read his book The Last Lecture…. and reached out to the corners of the world when his lecture found its way to the internet. His subject, LIFE. And what better way to discuss it than to share his very own. At 47 he had fatal cancer. Pancreatic Cancer.

I am not one of his computer science students. I have not gone to any of his lectures. I have not even read his book. But surely, I am one of the millions of people who are touched and inspired by Randy Pausch when he appeared for an interview on ABC by Diane Sawyer aired last April.

He was a professor and a son. A member of a faculty and a friend. But if there is one role that he was so proud to portray in his lifetime, that was being a husband and a father. In an Inspirational Speech that he delivered two months ago before the graduates of the the Carnegie Mellon University he was very proud to incorporate his lovestory in a nutshell. In his words, “I waited til 39 to get married because I had to wait that long to find someone where her happiness is more important than mine.” When he ended his speech, he walked to where his wife was standing, and gave her a long kiss in front of the cheering crowd.

When he was first told he had cancer, he accepted it. He said he was unlucky, but it wasn’t unfair. But being a father of three children (ages five, two and one) he couldn’t help but feel sad because “they won’t have me for them.” In that April interview my heart was crushed looking at this very young father. But most of all I had a difficult time containing my emotion when I saw how young his kids were. In a beautiful figure of speech he shared his worry with these words saying: “Somebody’s gonna push my family off the cliff pretty soon; and I won’t be there to catch them. And that breaks my heart. But I have some time to sew some nets to cushion the fall. And that seems like the best to make use of my time. So I can either curl up in a ball or I can get to work on those nets.”

Surely this man had found a better way to see life and living it. And he did not just stop there. Instead, he inspired people from different walks of life until they find their own awakening. And when he spoke before the graduates of CMU, he left them a cliche’ on living life well: “It’s not the things we do in life that we regret on our deathbed, it’s the things we do not.”

Then yesterday, students lost a professor. A wife lost her husband. The three kids lost their father. But for many of us who were touched by his lecture, we gained a new meaning in life as defined by Randy Pausch. In his last years, he was able to “put myself in a bottle that would one day wash up on the beach for my children.” And even after his death, his lessons will become a legacy for the people who heard him. May we always be reminded that “We don’t beat the (grim) reaper by living longer. We beat the reaper by living well, and living fully. For the reaper will come for all of us. The question is, what do we do during the time we’re born and the time he shows up. Coz when he shows up it’s too late to do all the things that you always gonna kinda get around to.”

***be among the 3.2 million people he touched and viewed his “Last Lecture”

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environmentalist….forever!

I have always been an Environmentalist. Being raised in a household of average economic capacity, conservation became inherent and going back to basics is just an easy equation as one plus one.

When I was in high school I took a first hand participation in gaining and propagating consciousness to our surroundings when I took part as a member of the organizing committee for the group we called Youth Environmental Society. This was before the government started making the youth as a political tool for their own personal agenda. Way before the youth was poisoned and shaped with their own political ambitions.

It was an ideal group composed of student leaders from different High Schools and Colleges in the City of Cebu. Our mission-vision was sprouted from our individual passion to make a difference in the environment starting from disseminating information to our fellow youth. Because it was not affiliated with any political figure, our meetings were very informal. Most of our Sunday meetings were convened in a park- somewhere under an isolated shade.

But being students whose scholastic demands had to be top priority, the organization had to take the back seat. We parted ways as we pursued our individual profession. But for many of us, the consciousness and idealism is still intact. And as for me, apart from the awareness that I can give, I have learned that it takes one little step to move forward. My contribution to the environment comes from what I do day by day.  It may just be me and my family…. but one has to start, and one has to start somewhere.  It takes one person to make a difference. And if everyone would start thinking like that, everyone would become environmentalists in their own ways.

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Filling in

Like a child craving for something that’s been lacking in me for the past week, I spend my Saturday afternoon in front of the computer.  No one can take me away from my spot I thought, until Dad handed me a mail.

Surprise…surprise!  I opened it.  And inside is a laminated card with my picture on it.  It was my Employment Authorization Card!  Instantly I left my seat, dashed to the living room and told Mom and Dad the great news.  It was so unbelievable for me.  And for them, it was very exciting.

The feeling of disbelief is just a natural feeling.  What I have on my hand is not just an ordinary card.  It signifies something greater…deeper.  This card comes with a challenge.  I have been here in the United States for almost  ten months now.  This is the place that I want to be.  The country I am destined  to grow.  With this card, I feel like I am finally part of a big circle, and that I can finally give myself to the society, and in turn it will recognize me.

The responsibility is glowing at it’s brightest at a distance, and I have to grab it with the aid of my strength and confidence.  Now, I can compete with the  stream-line of professionals and hopefully be able to cope with the challenges in store before me.  I am like a cub bold and daring to join the feast in the jungle.  I can’t wait to have my piece in the feast.  I was craving….as I am hungry.  I can’t wait to have my own fill.

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How I came to be Chrissaire

Fifteen years ago, I was jumbling over first and last syllables to come up with a pseudonym for myself. That was the period in my life that I started to uncover a passion for writing after winning in an Inter-School Feature Writing Contest. I was a Junior high school student then-with life revolving around Asian Literature, Economics, Christian Living and of course, Extra-Curricular activities. It was a Process of Elimination, and a rather unprecedented one at that.

Like any other student, it was around that period that I started being infatuated towards the opposite species. And having a crush became my primary tool in coming up with a pen name.

First it was Crissaine…taken from what I perceived to be my crush’s name. But it turned out that his name was actually derived after a Trigonometric ratio. I don’t dream in numbers nor speak in figures, so I cannot just give in for Trigonometry.

Then in that Regional Writing Contest that I joined in, I met a fellow contestant whose writing skills were just flawless. From then on, I was inspired and challenged to hone my pen and make it a mighty weapon to touch and influence people. That was when I became “Chrissaire”-Chris (from his name), and Saire (pronounced as Seyr like air)- a juggled letters from my name, Rosarie. It became a constant reminder for me to do better with my writings- a challenge that I embrace until now.

Nine years after that, it was the same pseudonym that served as my compass to finding my destiny. In 2002, a man named Christian found me- became my first boyfriend, and ultimately became my husband. And as I see it now, the name that I made for myself is actually the future that I am destined to be.

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a milestone in a glass

 a milestone in a glassThis blog is dedicated especially to my two sisters who are in distant places- living their respective lives with their respective families…. That because of the distance, sporadically can they find the luxury of updating themselves with even the minute happenings of our day to day lives here in Cebu.Consider this: Sometime in the middle of April- after craving for some excitement in my nerves, and feeling a gulp of boldness from my palate; I did the boldest thing I can ever do in my lifetime for the time being. Oh no! Not the slides by the pool. That is still too much of an asking from me. I cannot do that still. Remember I only got that unexpected courage twice when Christian was here. I must have misplaced that courage now that I could not find it anymore. It’s not about diving in the pool either. Those are just too much. Come on! Be imaginative for once! Think of something that maybe easy for you- yet difficult for me.

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living life

 living life

LOVE like you have never been
HURT.

 living life

DANCE like no one is WATCHING.

SING like no one is LISTENING.

LIVE like it’s heaven ON EARTH.

 living life

And LIVE EVERYDAY as if it were your last.

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the usual rigmarole

 the usual rigmarole

I was glued in front of the television set earlier tonight to update myself with the current events of the country. As expected, fifty percent of the newscast was devoted on the upcoming elections. There was nothing special about the news and the progress of the election campaign. I must admit that other than the progress in the countdown to the May election, everything else was just another rigmarole of the Philippines’ one-of-a-kind Politics.

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